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Yeah, I will give it some time. I mean, its still very unclear isn’t it?
My boyf is deffo not worth losing. I should rather prepare for my certification exams. A better and a productive way to keep my focus at something else.
Trying to be strong hun. Thanks for all the suggestions. *hugs*
If I were you I would just give it awhile. I think everyone at some point will lust at someone besides their partner, thats probably why cheating is so common, not that I’m saying you’d do that, but just in general. Right now your probably just feeling like theres someone new, attractive, and interesting in your life, and your imagination is going wild. Just give it some time and you’ll realize thats exactly what it is, and that your boyfriend really isn’t worth losing. Like I said before if this becomes more serious then I would just tell your friend the honest truth and say that you fear it will harm your relationship. Just remember this isn’t going to be the last time its going to happen, so be strong, and remember your with your boyfriend for a reason, so just remember those reasons. Good luck
I agree with Designercub’s suggestions. If your new friend is a decent person then he will not lead you to jepodise your current relationship. You can still be friends but at least bounderies are established and everyone know their position. Wait a while and see if your feelings change, I would probably do this first and then talk to your boyfriend if it is still an issue.
If you are thinking of a mutual friendship then it is a fine balancing act as there will invariably be elements of fear and jelousy. I’m not saying its impossible but it just needs to be managed tactfully. Try not to feel down about it and over analyze, you’ve met a new friend and you should be happy about that.
Good luck with this and also with your certification exams
BTW Hong Kong rocks, an amazing place to go visit. I’m lucky enough to go at least once every 3 years and visit relatives.
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